Abby's User ManualMy style
- I’ve been hard-wired as an entrepreneur since I was a kid.
I hover in ambiguity and possibility, and am most energized when I’m
connecting dots/people/resources that translate challenges into
opportunities. I am always scanning for information to feed ideas in my
mind, and typically do my best thinking out loud.
My high expectations are matched by my commitment to support people in
meeting them. I believe in giving people freedom, flexibility and “stretch”
assignments, and equipping them with the tools they need to uncover and
develop their potential.
I’m determined to prevent my attention from being hijacked by technology. I
never open my computer until I’ve written my quick list of what I intend to
hide my inbox
to help me focus, and I’ve tried to
take control of my phone
by removing everything that’s not a “tool” from my home screen.
What I value
I value resourcefulness and proactivity. Be smart, move fast and pivot
quickly. Ask forgiveness rather than permission.
I’m obsessed with efficiency: I touch each email only once (respond, delete,
delegate, or delay), and live by the law of 80/20 – often prioritizing
promptness (ie. 24-hour rule in following up on a meeting) over
perfection. I start each day by
“eating my frog”
when my energy and attention are fresh.
I expect my teammates to value efficiency as well. Before doing something
“the way it’s always been done,” scan for an easier, cheaper, simpler way to
maximize your “return on effort”. Before starting something from scratch,
ask if it’s already been tried.
I value scrappiness and feel an obligation to our staff, Fellows, partners
and donors to focus our limited time and resources on the “real good” vs.
the “feel good”.
I believe work-life alignment matters more than work-life balance, and that
strategic self-care – whether sleeping enough, leaving work early to
exercise, meditate, or spend time in nature – is the key ingredient to
becoming our best, most productive and happy selves. I am religious about
spending time unplugged – a day a week, and a few weeks a year.
What I don’t have patience for
If you make a mistake or something is heading off the rails, tell
me before the crash. Failure is great (as long as you learn quickly);
surprises are not.
I get antsy with hypothetical musings and over-analysis. I learn best
through experience and experimentation and have a strong bias toward
I default to trust, but if my confidence is shaken, it’s hard to rebuild.
Ways to lose my trust: not following through, withholding important
information, avoiding hard conversations, or treating others with
I am turned off by entitlement, boredom and taking things for granted – it’s
a privilege to do what we do, and it’s our joyful responsibility to take our
work seriously, but not ourselves!
How best to communicate with me
Be crisp. Start with the headlines. I prefer bullet points to prose, and
.PPT to .DOC.
I love to solve problems, remove barriers and help others move the ball
forward. Come to me not just with problems, but with plausible solutions
and your recommended course of action.
I value authenticity, honesty and transparency. If I say something you
disagree with, tell me. I am hungry to be challenged in thoughtful and
constructive ways. I respect people who have the right blend of confidence
and humility to know when to question someone (even the boss!), and when to
defer to another's expertise.
How to help me
I move quickly and don’t always catch every detail (except when it comes to
our brand and communications where I’m a painstaking perfectionist). I
appreciate help making sure the details are covered, and flagging for me any
that need my attention.
Nudge me when it’s time to start or end a meeting - but have (some) patience
with my flexible approach to time.
- Tell me what I need to know, not what you think I want to hear.
What people misunderstand about me
I am an introvert, posing as a professional extrovert. Don’t confuse my
tendency to work alone in my office with being disengaged. My door’s always
I speak with conviction, but I’m not set in my thinking. I'm open-minded
and always delighted to be shown a better way. I make decisions quickly,
but if you give me reasoning or data that points in another direction, I’ll
happily change course.
Finally, I may be the boss, but I’m also a person, a teammate and a messy
work-in-progress. I’m committed to always getting better at my job, and to
becoming a wiser, kinder and more impactful human.